Do you know those moments when you are in a conversation, and things go quiet? That awkward silence can have people squirming.

Do you laugh a little and make a joke about the awkward silence? Do you say something to escape the uncomfortable feeling in the silence?

You might be amazed by what you hear when you let silence fill a room.

The quiet gives you space for listening to understand, rather than listening to respond. Silence gives people time to process a conversation. The spaciousness of quiet allows different ideas to enter through the space.

Here is a simple tactic I used to increase my comfort with silence. When a conversation goes quiet, and nothing seems to be moving, I slowly and silently count to ten in my head.

Only once I hit ten would I start talking again. That is, of course, assuming the other person didn’t start talking first.

“Allowing for silence is not hard. Not filling the silence is the hard part.”

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