The cost of weaponizing shame is high
Rather than trying to shame someone into doing something, try supporting them.
Emotions can enable your work or become a toxin
Make it safe for people to let their emotional selves show.
No more trying for perfection
The next time you find yourself churning and trying to make things perfect, tell yourself: “Whatever happens is the only thing that could.”
Is life testing your resolve?
Whenever your resolve is tested, stop and breathe. Then get clear on what’s true for you now.
Do this instead of creating more rules
Instead of creating a new rule, ask, “What change in behaviours, beliefs, or values would help create what we want?”
Do rewards help create change?
Take a moment before you offer a reward to someone.
