What’s your relationship with chaos?
Do you control the chaos? Or does it control you? Chaos is when you can't know the relationship between cause and effect. Rather than let it control you, try something small to change the chaos. Notice what's different. Keep doing this until it isn't as chaotic.
How to get the best from Introverts and Extroverts
Introverts do their best thinking while they’re not talking. Extroverts do their best thinking while they’re talking. For best results: let both be who they are.
Why not make it easy?
“99% is a bitch, 100% is a breeze.” — Jack Canfield Stop making things so hard. Decide that something will be easy and go do it.
How messy is your mind?
There’s a point you can no longer keep a room clean because there’s too much stuff in it. Your mind is much the same. Trying to think about too many things at once will leave your mind a mess. We call this overwhelm. Put your attention on one thing at a time, and the...
Stop trying to get it right
In January 2019, I found myself frustrated with the process and experience of writing. I was finding the process of writing and publishing blog posts challenging. I would spend a lot of time working on each post as I tried to get it ‘right.’ To change the writing...
Don’t project on others
“They’re concerned …” “They didn’t …” "They" won't solve a problem, but "they" will help you feel better about a problem. Do you want to feel better or solve the problem? Rather than starting with “they,” try starting with “I.” “I noticed …” “I’m concerned…” “I.”...
Offering feedback – what’s your mindset?
Giving useful feedback is challenging
What didn’t you say?
You never know where your intuition might take things.
How much control do you have in life?
Have you noticed how the more you try to control life, the less you seem to have control of life?
How bold are you?
I wouldn’t be leading if I’m not willing to risk it all.



